So, me and my hubby have started talking about moving up north, near the Boston area. After I’m done with school, of course. I never saw myself staying in this town that I live in now for my entire life. I was always trying to talk my mom into moving all of us back out west to the area where I was born. However, the hubby doesn’t want to move out west, but up north instead because that is where he and his family is from. I don’t really care, just as long as we move.
Now that my mom and grandparents aren’t here, this town just isn’t the same. My cousin and aunt, eh? While they are blood family, it’s just after I talk to them, I feel the most alone. I don’t feel part of their inner circle. I’m not sure why that is. They are family, it’s not like I’m alone alone, it’s just… well, again something I just can’t put into words. My sense of family is totally in the walls of my house and no longer reaches outward. I just really have no ties to this town anymore, no reason I have to stay. I want my girls to know that there is a great big fat world out there and yes, I am aware that I don’t have to uproot my family and move to show my girls the world out there outside of these city limits, it’s just… well, again, I just don’t have the right words. The ties that bind me, well they are no longer there, ya know?
So anyway me and the hubby are in talks to move once I’m done with school and if some magic just happens to happen, I suppose we could go earlier. Surely they have colleges up north, right? And we may never ever move, but it has been officially put on the table as a topic of discussion and we will just see where that road takes us, if anywhere.
And I tell you all of this to get to this…
Last night me and the hubby had one of our famous text conversations. This one was about my finds on places to rent in the Boston area on craigslist. And what I’ve found out is that all houses up north come with a sunset view, hardwood floors, that my hubby likes houses that look like a serial killer could live there, my pets have to have excellent references and that I’m totally funnier than my daughter.
(FYI- my hubby “text types” meaning he shortens words like your to ur. He is an excellent speller so please do not take this text exchange as a reflection of his smartness. He can out spell anyone I’ve ever met and I’m not just saying that because I love him. He really can spell anything. I think because I’m such a bad speller, it’s one reason that I fell in love with him. It was a turn on.)
The first line was about a picture my hubby sent me of a rainbow on his way to work. It was pretty!
My hubby liked this house! I think it looks like a serial killer house!
We have a “high street” in our town. It’s where one can go to find awesome drugs such as crack, cocaine, meth, etc…
My hubby was telling me a story about how he played street hockey when he was a kid. I told him that only happens in the movies nowadays.
Change can be a really really really good thing! If you move to Boston, can I please come visit? I love it there...I hope you do too.
ReplyDeleteHilly, you are welcomed to my place (wherever it is) anytime! :) And yes, I need a change, like a big fat massive change right now. I can't explain it... I just have this need to do everything I've ever wanted to do and I want to do it all yesterday, LOL. I am trying to think with a level head, but it's not working too well these days. That is why the "let's move!" was quickly followed up with, "after I'm done with school" and have a few years to really think it through and take the right steps.
ReplyDeleteThe Boston area is one my favorites. My brother lives outside of Boston. I can use that as an excuse to come visit you :) But you do have to be careful, there are a LOT of horrible neighborhoods around there, even in the so-called suburbs. My brother has moved his family 4x because of high crime, gang activity, and drugs. My fave spot in Boston is down by the harbor. I just love it there.
ReplyDeleteBecky- you will have to text me the area that your brother lives! I really don't want my girls and hubby to have to join a gang :) I haven't a clue what is a good area and what isn't.
ReplyDeleteSouth Hadley is quite nice -- I went to summer camp out that way for a few years -- but it's a good distance from Boston. It's about equidistant from Boston and Hartford, CT. Franklin is closer to Providence, RI. That's what happens when you come to the East Coast; all of the states kind of push up against each other. :)
ReplyDeleteIf you decide that maybe 8-9 hours south is a good move for you, I hear wonderful things about the DC area. Just sayin'... :)
... and another thing: What good are references for your pets if they're not allowed to smoke? Sheesh -- East Coast folks are SO uptight...
ReplyDeleteShiny- The pet thing cracked me up! I was like how in the world do I get references for my pets?
ReplyDeleteAnd apparently, you just became my go-to person to find out what places are ok for us to move to since I have no clue! I think a lot of it (all of it!) will depend on where the hubby can find a job and then hopefully I can get a job in the area too... we shall see **keeping fingers crossed**
Happy to help; I was actually born up that way (Western Mass. close to South Hadley / Springfield).
ReplyDeleteBoston is a great place to live and we do have some of the best schools here. I would recommend living north or west of Boston. Oh, and I have both carpet and hardwood floors here ;)
ReplyDeleteI recommend change, I sure need some but can't do it now. I also think Boston is great but I've lived here my whole life. Let me know if you have any questions. I don't live IN Boston but have always been quite close and try to visit when I can.
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